Barelilus

Interesting. I have not done any cross realm raids other than LFR and Flex so was not exposed to that feature. As far as server raiding goes, I've pretty much stuck to a static group which used the Don't Be An Ass system (if you win something, you don't roll again till all other possible users have won unless no one else wants it).

Skype plus

First off, thanks Tiny for the addons and Icebox.

Looking through some of the files in the Icebox app, it would appear that a couple of the sub programs aren't integrating as you had intended. Right clicking the Skype module does cycle, but only 3 of the 5 subs are cycling. AskMrRobot and Twitter aren't cooperating. Also, the ingame options screen doesn't want to pop up when using /icebox or /ib. Are the / commands not unlocked yet?
Looking at the SSs you posted, loot was not set to ML, but was set to NBG. If the item did not hit your bags or your mailbox, then it is possible that someone else also rolled Need - 100 and the system gave the item to them. Hopefully you did put in a ticket to find out where the drop went, though the GM will more than likely tell you to try again next week.